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We are the nation's largest advocacy group for the LGBTQ+ military community! For over 3 decades, we have been advocating for policy changes like the repeal of Don't Ask, Don't Tell, supporting service members, veterans, and their families through every step of their military journey.

Your voice for the lgbtq+ military and veteran community

Your voice for the military and veteran community

We will confront federal policies that harm LGBTQ+ service members and veterans, advocating for reforms that protect rights, promote equality, and hold decision-makers accountable.

challenge discriminatory policies

We will expand programs, peer networks, and mentorship opportunities to ensure LGBTQ+ military families and veterans are empowered, informed, and resilient in the face of systemic challenges.

expanded programs

We will mobilize LGBTQ+ service members, veterans, and allies to engage directly with policymakers, guide legislation, and push
for policies that protect our community from discrimination.

We will mobilize LGBTQ+ service members, veterans, and allies to engage directly with policymakers, guide legislation, and push
for policies that protect our community from discrimination.

grassroots engagement

2026 is about getting back to what matters most: standing up for LGBTQ+ service members, veterans, and their families. We’re recommitting to our mission, reigniting our fight, and taking bold action to protect rights, advance equality, and strengthen our community. This year, we’re calling on every supporter, volunteer, and advocate to join us on the frontlines, because real change happens when our community leads the way.

Return to the Mission:
Reaffirming Our Purpose. Reigniting Our Fight.

our 2026 agenda

Resources for LBGTQ+ families

virtual monthly communities

HIV+ advocacy and community

discrimination data tracking

lgbtq+ military policy advocacy

our continued dedication

We are not stepping back from the fight against the transgender military ban. Our work focuses on securing permanent constitutional protections for trans service, supporting service members through forced separation processes, and strengthening the legal challenges led by our partners.

to protecting trans military service

 We are working to end discriminatory book bans, reinstate LGBTQ+ student clubs, and ensure that curriculum and learning environments reflect the full dignity and history of all students. We will continue supporting legal challenges and community advocacy to uphold students’ First Amendment rights.

To restoring equitable policies at Dodea schools

our continued dedication

We are fighting the discriminatory ban on Pride flags on base and in military housing. This is a clear violation of free expression and targets LGBTQ+ service members, families, and allies. We remain committed to challenging these policies and supporting those facing unequal enforcement.

to allowing and protecting free expression 

our continued dedication

We are working to end the denial of Pride events on bases and elimination Pride clubs at military academies. LGBTQ+ service members, families, and cadets deserve community and visibility. We remain committed to challenging discriminatory denials and supporting the right to gather and celebrate identity.

to reinstating pride events on military bases

our continued dedication

Drag is art, culture, and community. The military’s ban on drag performances is discrimination disguised as policy. We are fighting to overturn this ban and protect the right of LGBTQ+ service members and families to celebrate identity and build belonging.

to end the ban
on drag performances

our continued dedication

We are working to remove discriminatory barriers in VA care, including coverage restrictions for male breast cancer, gender-affirming care, and abortion services. We are engaging  policymakers to ensure equitable access and to reinstate Directive 1341 to safeguard dignity and rights for all veterans.

ending and preventing discriminatory VA policies

our continued dedication

In 2026, Modern Military is returning to our roots: fighting for LGBTQ+ service members and veterans through bold advocacy, critical policy change, and community-driven action. This year, we’re taking on the issues that matter most:  restoring access to healthcare for all military families, protecting HIV+ service members, and advancing policies that support family building.

Our 2026 Advocacy Agenda

looking to the future

see our 2026 advocacy agendasee our 2026 advocacy agenda

In 2026, Modern Military is returning to our roots: fighting for LGBTQ+ service members and veterans through bold advocacy, critical policy change, and community-driven action. This year, we’re taking on the issues that matter most:  restoring access to healthcare for all military families, protecting HIV+ service members, and advancing policies that support family building.

Our 2026 Advocacy Agenda

looking to the future

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Updating military enlistment, commissioning, and promotion policies to reflect court decisions affirming that HIV+ individuals should not face barriers to service. 

Training and informing recruiters and personnel so they fully understand and implement the updated policies consistently.

Introducing legislation that would codify and protect these policy updates, ensuring long-term enforcement and accountability. 

Monitoring implementation to identify and correct ongoing barriers that may prevent HIV+ service members from fully serving. 

HIV+ Policy updates

Advocating for the reinstatement of care at DoD facilities and coverage under TRICARE, reversing the removals enacted in the 2025 NDAA and DHA policy updates.

Highlighting the real-world impact on military families, using stories and data to show how these policy changes reduce access to care and create a disparity between military and civilian healthcare coverage and impact on readiness and retention. 

Building awareness and public support to pressure lawmakers to restore comprehensive, equitable healthcare for all military youth and adult dependents. 

gender affirming care

Advocating for the upholding of Obergefell v Hodges and the Respect for Marriage Act, ensuring marriage equality remains the law of the land.

Preparing for potential challenges to federal protections, ensuring that the marital statuses of military families are safeguarded even if federal policies change. 

Advocating for the removal of outdated statutes and/or constitutional amendments in 25 states that define marriage in ways that undermine equality.

Engaging policymakers and military leadership to continue to equally protect all marriages under DoD policy.


Marriage equality

Advocating for equitable access and TRICARE coverage to reproductive healthcare.

Ensuring policies reflect the recent court decisions, including protections and coverage under previous NDAA expansions and any future updated policies. 

Continuing to collect real-world stories from families affected by gaps in coverage to highlight the inequities and drive policy improvements. 

Engaging with policy and lawmakers, as well as DoD and VA administrators, to expand resources and guidance for family-building services across military installations. 

family building

2026 advocacy

expand access to family building resources and coverage

Defend and extend marriage equality protections nationwide

Restore access to and coverage of gender affirming healthcare

Policy updates for HIV+ current and potential service members

Updating military enlistment, commissioning, and promotion policies to reflect court decisions affirming that HIV+ individuals should not face barriers to service. 

Training and informing recruiters and personnel so they fully understand and implement the updated policies consistently.

Introducing legislation that would codify and protect these policy updates, ensuring long-term enforcement and accountability. 

Monitoring implementation to identify and correct ongoing barriers that may prevent HIV+ service members from fully serving. 

Work to ensure equitable service opportunities for HIV+ service members. 

Modern Military will 

expand access to family building resources and coverage

Defend and extend marriage equality protections nationwide

Restore access to and coverage of gender affirming healthcare

Policy updates for HIV+ current and potential service members

Advocating for the reinstatement of care at DoD facilities and coverage under TRICARE, reversing the removals enacted in the 2025 NDAA and DHA policy updates.

Highlighting the real-world impact on military families, using stories and data to show how these policy changes reduce access to care and create a disparity between military and civilian healthcare coverage and impact on readiness and retention. 

Engaging with lawmakers to explore solutions and ensure families can access necessary care. 

Building awareness and public support to pressure lawmakers to restore comprehensive, equitable healthcare for all military youth and adult dependents. 

Work to restore essential healthcare to LGBTQ+ military youth and dependents. 

Modern Military will 

expand access to family building resources and coverage

Defend and extend marriage equality protections nationwide

Restore access to and coverage of gender affirming healthcare

Policy updates for HIV+ current and potential service members

Advocating for the upholding of Obergefell v Hodges and the Respect for Marriage Act, ensuring marriage equality remains the law of the land.

Preparing for potential challenges to federal protections, ensuring that the marital statuses of military families are safeguarded even if federal policies change. 

Advocating for the removal of outdated statutes and/or constitutional amendments in 25 states that define marriage in ways that undermine equality.

Engaging policymakers and military leadership to continue to equally protect all marriages under DoD policy.


Work to defend and extend marriage equality protections across the nation.

Modern Military will 

expand access to family building resources and coverage

Defend and extend marriage equality protections nationwide

Restore access to and coverage of gender affirming healthcare

Policy updates for HIV+ current and potential service members

Advocating for equitable access and TRICARE coverage to reproductive healthcare, including IVF, egg/sperm preservation, and surrogacy so that all military service members and dependents have an equal opportunity for family building.

Ensuring policies reflect the recent court rulings, including protections and coverage under previous NDAA expansions and any future updated policies. 

Continuing to collect real-world stories from families affected by gaps in coverage to highlight the inequities and drive policy improvements. 

Engaging with policy and lawmakers, as well as DoD and VA administrators, to expand resources and guidance for family-building services across military installations. 

Work to expand access to LGBTQ+ inclusive resources and TRICARE coverage for family building.

Modern Military will 

close

Our work combines legal advocacy, public policy engagement, and a growing grassroots movement, ensuring that the voices of service members, veterans, and families are heard and counted. The fight for equality is not behind us—it’s happening now, and Modern Military is leading the charge to solidify, expand, and defend progress that was hard won by our legacy organizations.

Modern Military is made up of Heroes. Heroes helping heroes. They are always there for service members, veterans, and their families

Today, Modern Military is on the frontlines advocating for our LGBTQ+ and HIV+ military community. We fight for transgender service members to serve openly, challenge restrictions against those living with HIV, and protect LGBTQ+ families from discriminatory policies that threaten healthcare, parental rights, and their children’s ability to learn and thrive in safe, inclusive schools.

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Our community is under increased attack, from the removal of essential healthcare to the second ban on transgender military service, and we know it won’t stop here.

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If you or a loved one have experienced discrimination directly related to a military affiliated command, job, installation, or organization, we want to know! With the erasure of LGBTQ+ data from federal servers, we are determined to track discrimination data across the military community. 

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