Modern Military Announces Next Executive Director: Ashley Carothers

Modern Military Association of America Names Air Force Veteran Ashley Carothers as Executive Director

WASHINGTON, D.C. — Modern Military Association of America, the nation’s leading nonprofit advocating for LGBTQ+ service members, veterans, and their families, has announced Ashley Carothers as its new Executive Director. Interim Executive Director Cathy Marcello will transition to her new role as Senior Vice President of Advocacy and Training.

“I couldn’t be happier to relinquish my interim role as ED to such a stellar selection. It was an honor to temporarily lead this team over the last few months, and I’m excited to begin working on Advocacy full time as Ashley steps in as ED. Ashley has lived this fight firsthand, and she’s got expertise from back in the Outserve-SLDN days all the way through to her work at VA’s Center for Minority Veterans. Ashley is the leader we need for this next chapter, and I can’t wait to get started with her at the helm.”

Cathy Marcello She/Her
Former Interim Executive Director
Senior Vice President of Advocacy and Training

A proud Air Force Veteran, Ashley began her advocacy volunteering with OutServe, Modern Military’s predecessor, supporting LGBTQ+ service members and their families. Her career spans the military, federal government, and nonprofit sectors, with a focus on equity and community-centered engagement.

Ashley’s work includes service with the Department of the Army, American Red Cross, and the Department of State. She has championed for veterans nationally, including supporting the PACT Act, landmark legislation expanding healthcare and benefits for veterans exposed to toxic substances.

Most recently, Ashley served as Strategic Planner in the Office of the Secretary at the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) and before that as LGBTQ+ Program Manager at the VA’s Center for Minority Veterans (CMV). She has led initiatives to rebuild trust and improve access to care for underserved veterans using a human-centered design.

“We are thrilled to welcome Ashley to her new role as the Executive Director of Modern Military. Her extensive leadership experience in the military and federal workforce, coupled with her unwavering advocacy for the LGBTQ+ community, makes her the exact leader we need for this moment. “

-Hale Allegretti (he/him)
Board Chair

Ashley has also been nationally recognized, serving as Master of Ceremonies for the 2024 National Veterans Day Program at Arlington National Cemetery. She holds a degree in Psychology and certifications in Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion and Inclusive and Ethical Leadership.

“It’s a profound honor to lead the Modern Military Association of America, especially after being part of this organization and witnessing its impact firsthand. As we enter this next chapter, I’m committed to strengthening our advocacy, expanding our reach, and ensuring every LGBTQ+ service member, veteran and family member receives the respect and support they deserve.”

Ashley Carothers (she/her)
Executive Director

A letter from Ashley, Executive Director of Modern Military Association of America

Family,

I’m truly honored to be the Executive Director of the Modern Military Association of America. Many of you know me from my years within this organization, and it’s that deep connection that makes this moment especially meaningful for me.

I also want to express my deepest gratitude to our incredible staff. Their dedication, resilience, and willingness to step up during this period of transition has kept our mission moving forward. Modern Military is stronger because of their commitment, and I am profoundly grateful to lead alongside such a capable and passionate team.

Modern Military has always been a place where our community finds strength, support, and solidarity. As we step into this next chapter, my commitment is to listen, to uplift your voices, and to expand the resources and advocacy efforts that matter most to LGBTQ+ service members, veterans, and families.

We have important work ahead — and I believe in our shared ability to move forward with courage and compassion. Thank you for being part of this mission, and for welcoming me into this new role.

With appreciation and pride,

Ashley Carothers